Happy 16th Birthday Catherine Therese!!

Although you'll never read this my sweet Catherine, I love you. 16 years ago you changed our life forever. All of your siblings have done this in their own way but you have done so in a very special way. You have made me more empathetic, compassionate, and much more prayerful. Your smile lights up the world around you and we are all blessed by it.  It's not easy living with a saint. You remind me of my weakness and limited time on this earth. You challenge me to go deeper within myself and find what the Lord is trying to teach me...usually patience. You are made in His image and likeness but He uses you so that I can see my own beauty, goodness, and shortcomings.  You struggle mightily against me with every bath, diaper change, and wardrobe change. I struggle mightily with Him against all the changes He wills in my life. You depend on me and your mom for even the simplest of things. You teach me to depend on Him for everything and not rely on my on strength. You teach me that I

Chain Reactions

We are all familiar with "chain reactions".  These occur when one action creates another action which creates another and so on.  It can be as innocent, using the term lightly, as my son sliding his plate across the table which bumps his brother's glass of milk, which tips over, spilling said milk on said brother, which results in the brother erupting in tears and anger, which results in punishment for both brothers, which results in an evening of writing lines and washing clothes.  All of this because of simply sliding a plate across the table.

Chain reactions are not merely confined to the physical world but also exist in the spiritual world as well.  It can be as innocent, again, using the term lightly, as neglecting a regular prayer life, which in turn weakens a resolve against sin, which gives way to entertaining the near occasions of sin, which in turn gives way to actual sin, which causes self-hate, which causes despair, which causes more sin, and on, and on.

However, chain reactions need not always be negative.  Good chain reactions can come from good actions.  This is the idea behind the popular "random acts of kindness" movement.  These acts have the consequence of causing other good things to happen.  A man anonymously pays for a fellow diner's lunch, she in turn leaves a large tip, the waitress is now able to pay for the medicine her mother needs, and on, and on.

The difficulty with good chain reactions is that unlike the pushed plate, spilled milk, and events that follow, we aren't always able to see how our good works affect others down the line.  The anonymous patron will have no idea that his gesture helped save the life of the waitress' mother, the woman who watches the waitress' son, who will one day develop a life-saving procedure for stroke victims.

In the spiritual life, positive chain reactions are also difficult, if not impossible to see.  We can't see the effect that our prayers have on the lives of others. We can't see how our daily sacrifices have helped bring someone back to the Faith.  Yet, this in no way should deter us from doing such things.  If it does, we need to run to Confession because we are doing these things out of pride.  No, we may not see the fruits of our labor here on earth but we will in Heaven.  One day, when all is revealed, we will see the great chain-reaction of our life and how we affected others - for bad and for good.

There is one sacrament that the Lord has given us that has the power to stop a bad chain-reaction instantly and convert it into a good one - Confession.  It brings healing to the sinner and the Church, at the same instant.  It stops the chain-reaction of sin and begins the chain-reaction of grace immediately.  Imagine if we all resolved to go to Confession once a month or even twice!  This alone would change the world through a world-wide chain-reaction of grace!  What better "random act of kindness" can we do for this hurting world?



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